The Box: A simple but meaningful way to show up after someone dies
This box Big gifts can come in small, hand-folded packages. One of his students gave me this 11 days after Art died. That was over 15...
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Jun 301 min read
What to Say to a Grieving Person: The Power of 'Pebbling'
Last week, Adam Grant shared this post about pebbling. And I thought, wait, that is what I advise people on what to say to a grieving...
Jan 28, 20211 min read
A Simple Way to Feel Special
I have this "idea" notepad that hangs in my shower. Ya know when you get that inspiring idea or remember the one thing you keep...
Jan 15, 20213 min read
You are not a bad manager for thinking this!
As my husband passed out, he vomited, and the pizza sauce from our dinner earlier was on the rug. My first thought? "Oh no! Now I'll...
Sep 14, 20205 min read
Don't Bring a Meal to Your Friend with Cancer
I bet you think bringing a meal to your friends with cancer is one of the most helpful ways to help– well, not necessarily. But we'll get...
Oct 7, 20191 min read
Be Your Friend with Cancer's Super-Hero-Fairy-Godmother
“Hi," she said. "I’m at the grocery store. Open up your fridge and cabinets right now and tell me what five things you are almost out of. ...
Sep 14, 20193 min read
Cancer and Birthdays: Yes, You Can Do Both
For the first time in 16 years, I celebrated my birthday in Connecticut, where I grew up. Being with a few high school friends, my...
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