The Box: A simple but meaningful way to show up after someone dies
This box Big gifts can come in small, hand-folded packages. One of his students gave me this 11 days after Art died. That was over 15...
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Jun 301 min read
What to Say to a Grieving Person: The Power of 'Pebbling'
Last week, Adam Grant shared this post about pebbling. And I thought, wait, that is what I advise people on what to say to a grieving...
May 26, 20202 min read
Damn Brene Brown and her Power of Vulnerability
Day 3 After Nathan's Death I woke up thinking about Lisa and feeling super mad at Nathan for the pain he’s causing all of us. It’s easier...
May 15, 20202 min read
Day 2 Opioid Death
Her son's death, my rage.
May 12, 20202 min read
Opioid Treatment: The Time It Didn't Work
Day One April 21 My youngest son texted me the news. “Nathan’s died.” I called my son. He was crying. Do you know the sound of an 18...
Mar 19, 20174 min read
How to say good-bye to someone you love
My stepfather, Bill, died last month. During Christmas, I took my daughter and youngest son to see him so we could say good-bye. This...
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